
Psychology
We Used to Live Here
by Marcus Kliewer · 2025 · 312 pages
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We Used to Live Here
Unexpected Visitors on a Cold Night
On a cold Friday night, Eve Palmer is startled by a family of five at her doorstep. The father, Thomas , claims he grew up in her house and requests a tour for his children. Despite her unease and the absence of a visible car, Eve reluctantly lets them in. Her girlfriend, Charlie , is expected home soon, and Eve is anxious to resume their evening plans. The family's sudden appearance and familiarity with the house unsettle her, setting the stage for a night of growing tension. As the family tours the house , Eve notices their intimate knowledge of its layout, particularly Thomas 's. The childr
Lesson 1: Unexpected Visitors on a Cold Night
This principle from We Used to Live Here is backed by Marcus Kliewer's extensive research and real-world examples. Understanding it deeply can shift how you approach decisions, relationships, and long-term planning in meaningful ways.
Lesson 2: A Family's Strange Request
This principle from We Used to Live Here is backed by Marcus Kliewer's extensive research and real-world examples. Understanding it deeply can shift how you approach decisions, relationships, and long-term planning in meaningful ways.
Lesson 3: Eve's Inner Turmoil
This principle from We Used to Live Here is backed by Marcus Kliewer's extensive research and real-world examples. Understanding it deeply can shift how you approach decisions, relationships, and long-term planning in meaningful ways.
How to Apply We Used to Live Here's Lessons
The real value of We Used to Live Here lies in its applicability. After reading, the most important step is identifying which of Marcus Kliewer's principles speak most directly to your current situation.
Consider keeping a journal while reading — noting where the ideas challenge your current approach and where they confirm what you already suspected. The friction of your own resistance often points to the most important insights.
Key Quote
"Unexpected Visitors on a Cold Night" — Marcus Kliewer, We Used to Live Here
About the Author
Marcus Kliewer is the author of We Used to Live Here. The book reflects years of research, observation, and synthesis of evidence from multiple disciplines.











