Though our need to connect is innate, many of us frequently feel alone. Loneliness is the state of distress or discomfort that results when one perceives a gap between one’s desires for social connection and actual experiences of it. Even some people who are surrounded by others throughout the day—or are in a long-lasting marriage —still experience deep and pervasive loneliness. Research suggests that loneliness poses serious threats to well-being and long-term physical health.
Identifying and Fighting Loneliness
Whether a person lives in isolation or not, a lack of social connectedness can be painful. Loneliness can be described in different ways; a commonly used measure of loneliness, the UCLA Loneliness Scale, asks individuals about a range of feelings or deficits of connection, including how often they:
feel they lack companionship
feel “in tune” with people around them
feel outgoing and friendly
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