Perfectionism is both a driver and a symptom of mild cognitive impairment. Understanding this relationship is essential for breaking the cycle.
How Perfectionism Feeds Mild Cognitive Impairment
- Perfectionist standards are unachievable, guaranteeing chronic disappointment
- Harsh self-criticism when falling short of perfect standards directly drives mild cognitive impairment
- Procrastination (a perfectionism avoidance strategy) creates shame and increases mild cognitive impairment
- The gap between standards and reality is a constant source of mild cognitive impairment
Types of Perfectionism in Mild Cognitive Impairment
Self-oriented perfectionism: Unrealistically high personal standards Other-oriented perfectionism: Unrealistically high standards for others Socially prescribed perfectionism: Belief that others demand perfection from you
The last type has the strongest link to mild cognitive impairment.
Moving from Perfectionism to Excellence
Excellence — doing your best with available resources — is compatible with mild cognitive impairment management. Perfectionism — doing it perfectly or not at all — is not.
CBT and ACT are particularly effective for the perfectionism-mild cognitive impairment cycle.