Intergenerational trauma refers to the apparent transmission of trauma between generations of a family. People who experienced adverse childhood experiences growing up, or who survived historical disasters or traumas , may pass the effects of those traumas on to their children or grandchildren, through their genes , their behavior, or both, leaving the next generation susceptible to anxiety , depression , hypervigilance, and other emotional and mental health concerns.
The Mechanisms of Intergenerational Trauma
The memories of a traumatic experience stay with the individual who experienced it; the worldview it created in them, however, can be inherited by their children. Even young children, research has shown, detect and react to their parent’s anxiety cues. Studies of Holocaust survivors have found that while many resisted talking to children about their experiences, their worldview—that the world was a dangerous place where terrible things could happen at any time—affected their children’s outlook as well.
The mechanisms are still being studied. One way is that people who have experienced significant trauma may be more likely to have diminished attachment skills, have less patience as parents, and generally communicate messages and lessons to their children that are rooted in stress or anxiety. Research has shown that children raised by parents who experienced multiple adverse childhood experiences such as emotional, physical, or sexual abuse ; emotional or physical neglect; or parental separation or divorce are more likely to experience the effects of that adversity themselves.
Studies suggest that it can be. For example, when mice were conditioned in the lab to fear a certain smell, the succeeding two generations displayed a high sensitivity to the same smell, as well as increased receptors for detecting it.
Epigenetics researchers, who study how the environment and other external factors, including trauma, can change the way one’s genes are expressed, propose that when trauma affects the expression of genes in an individual, those changes can be transmitted to their child. However, the evidence for this transmission is limited, and further research is required to establish how it may occur.
Overcoming Intergenerational Trauma
One key to overcoming generational trauma is recognizing that the initial trauma remains unhealed. When one can become aware of the trauma they carry, identify its source, and get help in addressing it, then its intergenerational transfer can be halted.
Therapy can help someone recognize and address the effects of intergenerational trauma if the therapist can work with the individual to acknowledge their familial or cultural experience. For example, someone may have grown up with a parent who lacked warmth, was often distracted, and offered no praise. Coming to understand through therapy that the parent’s responses were based on their experiences of trauma may help them realize that those responses did not reflect their own lack of value. From there, the individual can reframe their sense of self, reclaim their self-esteem and self-worth, and move forward with greater confidence .
Once someone can recognize how trauma affected them, they may be able to—either on their own or with the help of a therapist—consciously commit themselves to parenting their children in a manner that takes their own experience into account, in whatever form this needs to take. For example, they may talk with their children openly about their family’s experiences, both positive and negative.
Some research suggests that as many as 70 percent of people will experience a traumatic event at some point, but few experts believe that many people are passing down intergenerational traumas. People whose parents raised them in a way that fostered resilience are more likely to avoid the effects of trauma or passing it on to their children. Also, people who are open with their children about the traumas they experience appear to be less likely to transmit the effects of those traumas.
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