Happiness is an electrifying and elusive state. Philosophers, theologians, psychologists, and even economists have long sought to define it. And since the 1990s, a whole branch of psychology— positive psychology —has been dedicated to pinning it down. More than simply positive mood, happiness is a state of well-being that encompasses living a good life, one with a sense of meaning and deep contentment.
Signs of a Happy Person
Happy people live with purpose. They typically find joy in lasting relationships, working toward their goals, and living according to their values. Rather than being enamored with material goods or luxury vacations, happy people tend to find joy in the simple pleasures of life—petting a dog, sitting under a tree, enjoying a cup of tea.
While everyone displays happiness differently, possible outward signs that someone is content include:
For more, see How To Find Happiness.
Myths About Happiness
Misperceptions abound when it comes to what we think will make us happy. People often believe that happiness will be achieved once they reach a certain milestone, such as finding the perfect partner or landing a particular salary. Humans, however, are excellent at adapting to new circumstances—which means that people often quickly habituate to their new relationship or wealth, return to a baseline level of happiness, and seek out the next milestone. Fortunately, the same principle applies to setbacks—we are resilient and will most likely find happiness again.
The type of thoughts below exemplify these misconceptions about happiness:
For more, see The Science of Happiness.
Positive psychology is the branch of psychology that explores human flourishing. It asks how individuals can experience positive emotions, develop authentic relationships, find flow, achieve their goals, and build a meaningful life.
Happiness Over the Lifespan
Every person has unique life experiences, and therefore unique experiences of happiness. That being said, when scientists examine the average trajectory of happiness over the lifespan, some patterns tend to emerge. Happiness and satisfaction begin relatively high, decrease from adolescence to midlife , and rise throughout older adulthood.
What makes someone happy in their 20s may not spark joy in their 80s—and the things that bring joy in someone’s 80s may have seemed irrelevant in their 20s. It’s valuable for people to continue observing and revising what makes them happy at a given time to continue striving for fulfillment throughout their lifetime.
For more, see Happiness Over the Lifespan.
Health and happiness are closely intertwined. That’s not to say that people with illnesses can’t be happy, but that attending to one’s health is an important—and perhaps underappreciated—component of well-being.
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