Asperger's syndrome refers to a high-functioning form of autism . Although it was once classified as its own condition, Asperger’s is no longer an official diagnosis in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). The behavior ascribed to Asperger’s is now encompassed under the umbrella diagnosis of Autism Spectrum Disorder.
When Asperger's Syndrome Becomes Part of Your Identity
Living with asperger's syndrome over time can lead to a fusion of identity and diagnosis. You may find yourself thinking "I am asperger's syndrome" rather than "I have asperger's syndrome." This identity fusion has significant consequences:
- Reduces motivation (why try if this is just who I am?)
- Increases shame and stigma internalization
- Makes recovery feel like losing part of yourself
- Limits how others see you (and how you see yourself)
Reclaiming a Multidimensional Identity
Your identity is vastly larger than asperger's syndrome. A powerful exercise: complete this sentence 20 times with anything other than your struggles:
"I am someone who ___________"
Values, roles, relationships, interests, history, capabilities — all form your identity.
Asperger's Syndrome as One Chapter, Not the Whole Story
Narrative therapy offers a powerful reframe: asperger's syndrome is one story in a much larger life narrative. You are the author, not the character defined by struggle.
Externalizing the problem: Practice talking about "Asperger's Syndrome that visits me" rather than "my Asperger's Syndrome." This linguistic shift creates psychological distance and agency.
Building Identity Beyond Asperger's Syndrome
- Invest in relationships that see your full self, not just your struggles
- Pursue interests unrelated to mental health — art, sport, learning, creativity
- Find meaning — purpose larger than symptom management provides identity anchor
- Contribute to others — giving to others builds positive identity components
- Celebrate growth — document how you've changed, overcome, adapted
The Strengths That Asperger's Syndrome Builds
Many people find that navigating asperger's syndrome develops genuine strengths: deep empathy, resilience, self-awareness, creativity, and a hard-won wisdom about what matters in life.