Why Women Are Infuriated by This "Love Is Blind" Cast Member

12 alarming behaviors in "Love Is Blind", according to a therapist.

Posted February 25, 2025 | Reviewed by Abigail Fagan

If you’re a woman watching season eight of Love Is Blind , you’re likely infuriated by Dave—I know I am. While it’s important to acknowledge that production may have shaped Dave’s 'character' and storyline, the behavior we see as viewers is still deeply troubling. It’s a clear example of how coercion and criticism can be used to manipulate and control a partner. And this is something you have every right to be angry about. As a therapist who specializes in emotionally abusive relationships, I have several thoughts and observations to share.

Here are 12 reasons why you might be feeling triggered and maybe screaming at your TV:

In a healthy relationship, mutual respect and understanding of each other’s feelings, needs, and experiences are essential. However, in this dynamic, Dave appears to see himself as superior, showing little regard for his partner's emotions or well-being. Unfortunately, many women have dated or been in a relationship with someone like Dave at some point, which is what makes it difficult to watch. But as the saying goes, 'knowledge is power.' Once you’re able to recognize these red flags, you’ll find it easier to stand up for and protect yourself in future relationships.

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Leah Aguirre, LCSW , is a psychotherapist based in San Diego, CA. She works primarily with individuals who have experienced complex trauma and struggle with mental health challenges.

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