'Depressive' Has More Meanings Than Disorders in Psychology
The word "depressive" can refer to disorder, personality, or phase of development.
Updated November 26, 2025 | Reviewed by Michelle Quirk
The word depressive comes from depress, stemming from the Latin depressare, meaning to “press down.” For example, we can press down on, or depress, a lever. Whenever you press a key or drive and step on the gas pedal, you engage in a depressing motion. It doesn’t mean you were melancholic and sobbing as your foot moved downward on the pedal; it just means you pressed down on it.
Cleary, depress is not synonymous with a mood, so one would think that if you Google “definition of depressive” or “definition of depression ,” you’d get some derivative of pressing down on, and the mental health condition would be just one of the definitions available.
Nope. Those searches led right to Mayo Clinic and other high-falutin’ psych websites telling you everything you want to know about depression, as in “persistent low mood, yada, yada, yada.” At that, these sites don’t mention the other meanings of depressive in psychology, as it can refer to a state, a characteristic, or a phase, as follows:
As a state , depressive would refer to a depressive disorder, something episodic. It indeed is marked by a low (i.e., depressed—can you see where the term for the psychological pathology arose from?) or bad mood; changes in sleep, appetite , and energy; negative thinking , etc. It comes in various forms, each marked by how prevalent certain symptoms are or how they cluster.
For instance, someone with melancholic major depressive episodes has symptoms of a palpably dark mood, inordinate guilty feelings, remarkable insomnia , and extreme weight loss from lack of appetite. Someone with a dysthymic depressive disorder doesn’t experience a crushing depression but tends to have long spells of seeming like a gray cloud follows them around, may have a low self-image , and might remind you of Eeyore.
The word “characteristic” derives from the Greek “kharakter,” meaning “stamping tool” (as in forging). This means that characteristics aren’t transient (as in something episodic), but rather they're “baked in” and part of a person's distinguishing qualities. A personality is established by middle school and is the culmination of inherited/genetic components, like tendency for anxiety , irritability, and impulse control, coupled with learned components, or habits, such as how they view themselves and how to deal with frustration.
Someone with a depressive personality may not be having depressive episodes as in the above, but they “keep themselves down” (are acting in a depressive fashion toward themselves). Such people seem to have a natural proneness to anxiety and early life experiences that lead them to treat themselves poorly and struggle to effectively manage interpersonal conflict.
The psychologist Jonathan Shedler (2021) perhaps best sums up the flavor of a depressive personality style: “The person is angry, defends against experiencing anger , and instead directs it at themselves in the form of self-criticism, self-deprivation, and self-punitiveness” [i.e., everything is really my fault]… undue people pleasing and helpfulness protect against disapproval or rejection,” which is important because of an intense fear of rejection and loss they often harbor. Like depressive episodes, above, there are variations in this character style (for those interested, see Millon, 2011), but at the core is Shedler’s description of the internal world of someone with it.
Lastly, depressive can refer to a phase in infancy called the “depressive position,” which, according to many child development psychologists, everyone goes through. In the 1930s, psychoanalyst Melanie Klein, a pioneer of understanding the psyches of infants and children, developed the theory of the paranoid-schizoid-depressive phase.
During this phase, it is surmised that the infant idealizes the mother at the very beginning; Everything good comes from her—warmth, food, interaction, etc. Eventually, the mother disappoints, such as not always being immediately available or not having enough milk, and the infant feels attacked by this (paranoid), and splits (schizoid [“schiz” implying disconnection) the mother into all good or all bad depending on what occurs. By around 4 months old, it dawns on the baby that the idealized and hated mother are one and the same and that the all-idealized mother is nothing but a relic—a depressive realization.
Albeit a seemingly negative experience, this is considered a springboard for maturation because it is from here that the baby begins to wrestle with the fact that the people around them are complex and they need to deal with that; in essence, it could be said that it is the point where learning frustration tolerance begins.
If you’ve ever experienced a bad day with your partner and seen them in a very negative light, but you continue to realize that, despite this, they are still a good person, you still love them, and you continue to have positive intimacy , you’ve experienced what the infant is surmised to go through. In fact, the depressive position is not a “one and done” in infancy. We encounter this phenomenon throughout life with people we’re close to; interested readers are encouraged to listen to Dr. Frank Yeomans' interview on the Psychiatry and Psychotherapy Podcast of February 22, 2025.
Disclaimer: The material provided in this post is for informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose, treat, or prevent any illness in readers or people they know. The information should not replace personalized care or intervention from an individual’s provider or formal supervision if you’re a practitioner or student.
Millon, T. (2011). Disorders of Personality (3rd ed). Wiley.
Shedler. J. (2021). The personality syndromes. In R.E. Feinstein (Ed.), Primer on Personality Disorders (pp. 6-7). Wiley.
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