8 Postpartum Depression Symptoms You Need to Know
Motherhood is hard, but when are your difficulties outside of normal?
Posted October 6, 2016 | Reviewed by Devon Frye
Giving birth is tough—it’s not called "labor" for nothing. And what happens next? No rest for the weary. Instead, this fragile, helpless human being needs your attention —a lot of attention. On top of that, you’re dealt some serious sleep deprivation, turbulent hormones , and all the cultural expectations around bonding , bliss, and being “mom enough.” Sometimes, it’s all a rude awakening (and one not instigated by middle-of-the-night feeding requests).
Considering this, it’s no wonder that 9 to 16 percent of moms , through no fault of their own, will experience postpartum depression . Indeed, a mix of genetics , hormones, predisposition, support (or lack thereof), and stress creates a perfect storm for the illness.
Women with postpartum depression were once silenced and written off, but are now speaking out. So this week, we’ll amplify this critical voice by busting four myths about postpartum depression—plus, eight symptoms to watch for.
Myth buster #1: Postpartum depression can start before giving birth. In fully 50 percent of moms with postpartum depression, symptoms began during pregnancy , not just after the baby was born.
Myth buster #2: Postpartum illness can also start later—well beyond the first four weeks after giving birth.
Bottom line: if you are suffering, you don’t have to fit into a neat little diagnostic box to get help. Nothing about having a new baby is clean, including exact symptoms and timing. Many advocates have argued that changing the onset to anytime in the first six months or even the first year after giving birth would reflect the experiences of moms with postpartum depression more accurately. And no matter what the label, your physician or mental health provider should treat you the same way: with compassion and action.
Myth buster #3: There is a whole collection of other postpartum illnesses besides postpartum depression: postpartum anxiety , postpartum OCD , and rarely, but often enough to be recognized, postpartum psychosis . These are all challenging disorders new moms (and even dads) can experience.
Myth buster #4: Postpartum depression consists of more than just the “baby blues,” the period of emotional adjustment that occurs after having a baby. Baby blues go away on their own, and consist of experiencing the symptoms below in a transient way. By contrast, with postpartum depression, you feel some or all of the symptoms more often than not.
So, what are the symptoms of postpartum depression?
It’s important to note that not everyone will experience every symptom, plus there are also the classic symptoms of depression such as crying and changes in appetite and sleep. Don’t worry about matching up perfectly—you know if you’re miserable.
The take-home message is this: bringing a new person into the world is tiring, emotional, and, at times, overwhelming. But if you think you’re losing your mind, or feel miserable more often than not, resentful more often than not, or worried more often than not, you deserve some help. A new baby is hard, but it’s not supposed to be torment.
Most importantly, postpartum depression, anxiety, OCD, and psychosis are all treatable. You are not a bad mom if you have postpartum illness, and reaching out for help—to your doctor or a qualified therapist—makes you a great one.
A version of this piece originally appeared on Quick and Dirty Tips .
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Ellen Hendriksen, Ph.D. , is the author of How to Be Enough: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists and How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety .
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